I have a friend who is one of the nicest girls ever. I will bet my life on that. She is always so polite, I've never seen her mad or frustrated. She is the definition of a polite young lady.
When I see other people, especially the rude boys (mostly freshmen) I can't help but wonder why they aren't as polite as my friend is.
The main problem is that public schools don't place as much emphasis on ethics and values as they should. Schools these days are obsessed with raising their test scores by supplying their students with busywork. Class after class, students are just handed the material and expected to learn it. While these are important for their education, this does not necessarily make them a good citizen.
Students should be taught important values. "Respect" is a wonderful value, since everyone regardless of age or status deserves respect. It's a value that is very positive, and it's rare that it can be taken negatively. Along with "respect", "kindness" and "honesty" go along with it. Being "kind" and "honest" is giving "respect" to someone because it is the opposite of "mean" and "lying".
While values are important, it's also important to keep in mind that some believed values can do more harm than good. On the subject of education, the student is expected to turn in their best work. This goes along with consideration, because the student is taking their time to put forth the best effort into their work. This is a good value, as long as it is kept in moderation. If teachers expect good work from students all of the time, and assign a lot of work, students may get stressed and resort to academic dishonesty to be "considerate" to the teacher by continuously putting forth their best work.
Very insightful :)
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